Diversity vs Inclusion

November 19, 2019 in Disability & Inclusion - No Comments

I had to politely explain the difference between diversity and inclusion to someone the other day who ignorantly told me…
“All dance studios are inclusive.”

Um no.
We had one studio that flat out told us Callie was not welcome.  They only accepted little girls that could do the moves correctly and could be “real dancers.”  They were one of the best studios in the area.

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Because this mama very rarely accepts no for an answer, we waited a bit and then tried a different one. This one said they would take Callie and we were thrilled.

But they weren’t inclusive. They were happy to let her be in class and take our monthly dues but they didn’t adapt things for her. They expected her to be able to do the same movements that the other little girls did–with her prosthetic leg.  They didn’t make any modifications to the activities.  Nor would they allow her to be part of the performance because she couldn’t do the moves with her prosthetic like the other girls and they claimed it would be disruptive to the program.

So we left that studio after two lessons.

Until we were introduced to our current one. Which we LOVE.
Callie not only was welcomed with open arms but they have adapted and modified things for her so she can fully participate to her utmost abilities.  She is celebrated for her unique talents and gifts.  She is treated like a member of the team and never sidelined or asked to sit anything out.

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She is just blooming on stage and is so incredibly excited about her upcoming production of The Nutcracker.

Diversity is being invited to the party. Inclusion is being asked to DANCE.

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Jaime

Jaime is a writer, editor, and lifestyle storyteller focused on modern womanhood, slow living, and life after survival mode. As the founder of The Wildflower Edit, she creates thoughtful, beautifully honest content at the intersection of motherhood, disability, emotional healing, and intentional living. Her work invites women to edit their lives with care — keeping what feels true and releasing the rest — for anyone learning to bloom in their own way.

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Hi, I’m Jaime — writer, mother, storyteller, and the heart behind The Wildflower Edit. For nearly a decade, I wrote online as The Princess and the Prosthetic, sharing my daughter’s journey with disability and the lessons our family learned along the way. It was a beautiful season — full of advocacy, connection, and community — but as my daughter grew older, I felt a shift. She deserved more autonomy. More privacy. More room to decide how she shows up in the world. And I realized something else: My own story was expanding too. Motherhood was still here. Disability was still here. But so were grief, healing, womanhood, nervous system care, feminine energy, homemaking, identity, softness… the fuller, deeper pieces of life that were ready to be spoken aloud. Whether you come for the cozy routines, the motherhood reflections, the disability advocacy, or the soft life inspiration — thank you for choosing to share this space with me. Pour a warm drink. Settle in. Let’s grow a life that feels like you again.

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